What’s Yours?
YOUR FIRST IN YOUR NEW HOME…
From Appliances to Meals
First Night in New Home: What’s it Like?
Congrats on the new home! The first night can be super exciting but also a little overwhelming. Here are a few things to make it a bit smoother:
Set up the essentials first – Make sure you’ve got your bed, some towels, and basic toiletries ready to go. The last thing you want is to be scrambling to find those at the end of the day.
Create a cozy vibe – Light some candles or turn on some soft lighting. Maybe even unpack a few cozy items like throw blankets or cushions to make the space feel more like home right away.
Enjoy a simple meal – If you’re not ready to cook, order something comforting like pizza, or even just have some snacks handy. It’s a good way to relax without stressing about making dinner.
Unwind with a movie or music – Sometimes, just relaxing with something familiar (a favorite movie or playlist) can help ease the transition.
Take a walk around your neighborhood – If you’re up for it, a quick stroll can help you familiarize yourself with the area, and it's a nice way to clear your mind before bed.
Your First Appliance In Your New Home
The first appliance you might consider for your new home really depends on your priorities and lifestyle. Some essentials could include:
Refrigerator – Probably the most important, as it helps keep your food fresh.
Washer and Dryer – If you don’t have access to laundry facilities, this could be a top priority.
Microwave – Convenient for quick meals or reheating leftovers.
Dishwasher – If you don’t want to spend too much time washing dishes by hand.
Your first meal in your new home
Moving into a new home is such an exciting time! A lot of people prefer to cook something simple and comforting on their first day. Here are a few ideas:
Pasta or Spaghetti – Easy to make, filling, and can be customized with various sauces, vegetables, or meats. Plus, it’s a great dish to make in large portions, which is helpful if you’re still unpacking and don’t want to cook again soon.
One-Pan Dishes – Things like roasted chicken, vegetables, and potatoes in one pan are a no-fuss way to get a hearty meal without making a mess of your new kitchen.
Stir-Fry – You can throw whatever vegetables or protein you have on hand, along with some rice or noodles, for a quick, healthy meal. It’s easy to customize with whatever you have around.
Tacos or Burritos – These can be as simple or as fancy as you want. A quick taco bar with tortillas, seasoned meat or beans, and toppings like cheese, guacamole, and salsa.
Comfort Food – Many people opt for a classic like mac and cheese, grilled cheese, or a comforting soup. These dishes are cozy and easy to make, perfect for an evening of settling in.
Your first disagreement in your new home
Disagreements in a new home can be common as everyone adjusts to the new space and responsibilities. A few typical sources of conflict could be things like deciding on the layout of the rooms, cleaning duties, who gets to use the shared spaces when, or even how much time is spent with guests. It’s all part of finding a rhythm together.
Communication is key to navigating the first disagreement. Make sure everyone feels heard, acknowledge the stress of the move, and try to find a compromise. Sometimes a bit of humor can help too—after all, it’s likely a temporary bump on the road to creating a shared space.
Do you and your roommate/partner have specific roles set up yet, like chores or organizing, or are you still working through that?
